Thank
you for your patience and understanding as we have made our way through the
early stages of working through and living into our new relationship with Eno
UMC. This process has been a bit like building a bridge as we cross it and so it
has been difficult to share a wider vision of what this relationship might look
like as we move forward. I have also been a bit reticent to make definitive
statements, wanting to make sure that we—Union Grove, Eno, the district, and
the conference, are all on the same page. What we are doing is new and unique,
not at all the same way that our church has done things in the past.
Earlier
this summer as our intern, Dave Swanson, prepared a devotion for our summer
swim party, he came across the idea of mutual adoption as a good way to
describe our new relationship with Eno. Galatians 4:4 says, “But when the
fullness of time had come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the
law, so that we might receive adoption as children.”
Adoption
offers two levels of invitation. The first is that of being joined together, grafted
into, becoming a part of. The separation that fallen humanity created in our
relationship with God was removed, bridged forever through the gift of God’s
love in Christ. We are received again as part of the family. We “are no longer
slaves to sin, but children of God, and if children then also heirs of God
through Christ.” Paul’s description of adoption in Galatians, however, doesn’t
stop with just a family reunion. It invites us to something substantially
deeper and profound.
Paul
tells us that in Christ, we are introduced and invited to an unprecedented
intimacy with God. Jesus addresses God as, “Abba! Father!” (Daddy, Papa) Nowhere in the Old Testament is God directly addressed
as Father. Yet, Jesus always addressed God using this very intimate,
family-centered term, the way a child in everyday language would address their
father.
Suddenly
we are free in God, like a child is free with their parents. Our relationship
is intimate and reverent. This intimacy is a freedom to share ourselves openly,
honestly, fearlessly in God’s presence. “We are free to be spontaneous,
personal and uninhibited.” As God’s love in Christ has bridged the gap created
by sin and impassable by the law, our relationship with God is not a formal
one; it is a family one.
Understanding
our new relationship with Eno UMC as mutual adoption allows us to live into
this model of relationship we have been shown and experience in Christ. Union
Grove and Eno have been joined together, made one. Eno is now officially a
campus of Union Grove. We can together share the gifts, resources and potential
of both settings. We are, “One church, with two wonderful campuses.”
But
adoption offers the opportunity for so much more than just
a
formal means of existing together. As family we are invited to grow together,
reach out together, to become more together than we could have been apart. There
are opportunities available in the Union Grove community that are not available
in the Eno community. There are opportunities available in the Eno community
that are not available in the Union Grove community. Our new relationship is much more than a
formal one, it is a family one.
Here
are several questions that were asked at our Church Council meeting last week.
I hope my responses to these will be helpful. If you have additional questions
or concerns, please call or email. We want to do our best to answer all
questions and move forward in a positive manner.
We
would love for you to share questions and comments so that others might benefit
from our discussion. You are invited to post below these questions.
Among several options, we’ve discussed starting a new worship service(s) and tried to think outside the box as bit when discerning how and where that might happen. Might God be calling us to reach out to health care workers through a store front/coffee shop in the Waterstone development or some other alternative setting? Is there a desire/need for an additional or alternative service on the Union Grove campus?
As we have looked at a number of possibilities over the past several years, Eno UMC kept popping up in a variety of settings and conversations. We knew they were struggling and yet kept hearing about how committed their congregation was to their church and how hard they were working to move forward.
My
very best response to “why” is that we really feel this is a “God thing.” We
have been praying and seeking God’s vision and leading, feeling that there was
something more on the horizon.
Again,
first and foremost, following God’s lead is always the path we are called to
follow. To do anything less would be turning our backs on who God is calling us
to be. We do believe God is calling us to this opportunity to be in ministry
and mission
In January of 2011, at our annual retreat, and after much prayer and discussion, our Church Council voted to move forward with the hiring of a second full-time clergy person. We sensed in a powerful way that God was moving us to be more fully present in our community, especially with our children and youth.
We
are working hard, as we always have, to make worship at Union Grove faithful
and engaging. We pray that we will continue see growth in the number of persons
who share in worship on this campus with us each week. The problem is, given
our current rate of growth, it will take us at least five year or six years for
us to reach the number in worship that we need in the next two to three years to
make our staffing sustainable. How do we bridge that gap?
Eno seems to be at least part of God’s answer to
that question for us. A new service at Eno, surrounded by the growing West
Hillsborough neighborhood, has substantial potential to help us grow in
ministry and mission. It also offers an opportunity for us to offer a worship
experience that is different so that we might reach out to some of our current
members who are either not available on Sunday mornings or who would prefer a
bit different style in worship.